Ann-Margret Cared for Husband Who Couldn’t Walk – She Struggled for 13 Years to Get Pregnant Though He Made Her a Mom
- Ann-Margret experienced a beautiful 50-year love story with her husband until his death.
- She tried having kids of her own for 13 years but settled on being a stepmom to her husband’s three kids.
- When her husband couldn’t walk due to health issues, Ann-Margret became an “amazing nurse” to him; she put her career on pause to take care of him.
Actress and singer Ann-Margret and her late husband Roger Smith were totally devoted to each other, having been married for 50 years.
The couple exchanged vows in 1967 and remained in their happy union until Smith died on June 4, 2017, after battling myasthenia gravis for many years.
Ann-Margret’s headshot taken in 1960 | Source: Getty Images
Before Ann-Margret married Smith, she dated Elvis Presley, a singer and her co-star in “Viva Las Vegas.” Even after she moved on with Smith, she and the singer remained friends until Presley died.
She valued their friendship so much that even after she resumed her career after her husband’s death, Ann-Margret excluded the songs made famous by Presley from her album. She said of leaving some songs out:
“I decided not to. Everyone knows how I felt about him and the friendship that we had all these years. It was very, very private.”
Elvis Presley and Ann-Margret on the set of “Viva Las Vegas” in 1964 | Source: Getty Images
After getting married, Ann-Margret and Smith were inseparable. “I knew I was going to marry him on the third date,” she revealed.
They couldn’t stand being on film sets on the opposite ends of the country. Eventually, Smith became her manager to ensure they would always be together. “The Swinger” singer said:
“Now, in Roger, I’ve found all the men I need rolled into one — a father, a friend, a lover, a manager, a businessman. It’s perfect for me. I couldn’t exist without a strong man.”
A portrait of Ann-Margret in 1965 | Source: Getty Images
Smith was a great manager to her as he helped her grow beyond the image of the cartoon character that critics had of her. Due to his efforts, Ann-Margret landed challenging parts in “Carnal Knowledge” and “Tommy,” which earned her critical acclaim and recognition from award-show voters.
The actress went on to feature in great film series such as “Grumpy Old Men.” She also had a guest appearance in “Law & Order: Special Victims Unit,” which earned her an Emmy.
Smith once revealed in an interview that he had a dream of co-starring with his wife on a Broadway play after she left the movies. Unfortunately, the duo never fulfilled this dream.
Ann-Margret and Roger Smith in Beverly Hills, California on March 6, 1981 | Source: Getty Images
Like with most marriages, Ann-Margret and her husband faced several challenges, but they remained united through it all.
They were lucky enough to have a long life together and even celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary shortly before Smith’s demise. It was always Smith’s wish to reach the milestone, and he was ecstatic when it happened.
Ann-Margret in Los Angeles, California on April 15, 2023 | Source: Getty Images
After years of Smith managing his wife’s career, Ann-Margret matched her husband’s support by being there for him in his personal life. When Smith was diagnosed with myasthenia gravis and Parkinson’s disease, the actress pressed pause on her career. She said:
“I kept saying no, no, no to everything because I was taking care of him. If you’re a spouse, if one of you has a broken wing, the other takes over.”
A person close to Ann-Margret revealed the actress was an “amazing nurse” to her husband during his illness. But the love did not end there. She reportedly still held her husband dear even after he died. “To her, a great love story doesn’t end with death. You carry their spirit with you,” the friend disclosed.
Ann-Margret and Roger Smith in New York City on March 30, 2017 | Source: Getty Images
Following her husband’s death, Ann-Margret noted that she was grateful for all the years she shared with him:
“When I look back at my life, I am most proud of my marriage…We both wanted it to work. And it did work. We were together night and day. We loved each other and were always in each other’s corner.”
She mourned him and, amidst the pain, attempted to move on by focusing on her passions and talents. She also fondly recalls the life they had together.
Ann-Margret in Beverly Hills, California on March 6, 1981 | Source: Getty Images
She Tried to Get Pregnant for 13 Years
Ann-Margret tried to get pregnant for 13 years. She revealed that she used a fertility pump and an experimental device that injected a hormone into her stomach to aid ovulation.
[Ann-Margret] is attempting to move on with her life by being busy with her career, but she still lives in the same Los Angeles home she bought with Smith.
Ann-Margret and Roger Smith in Los Angeles, California in 1960 | Source: Getty Images
Even though Smith had three children, the actress also wanted to have her biological children. She said:
“The point is, if I am meant to have a child, I will have one. Whatever my higher power feels is right for me, I will accept. I know this may sound simplistic, but I believe in the serenity prayer.”
Ann-Margret and Roger Smith in New York City on March 30, 2017 | Source: Getty Images
For years, Ann-Margret prayed to God to give her the serenity to accept things she could not change, the courage to change the things she could, and the wisdom to know the difference.
After trying unsuccessfully to conceive for years, the actress gave up on the hormone-inducing situation and settled on being a stepmother to Smith’s kids. She noted that this was her favorite of all the roles she ever played.
Roger Smith and Ann-Margret in New York City in 1970 | Source: Getty Images
The 82-year-old said she became a disciplinarian stepmother who taught her stepkids to be respectful just as her parents had trained her:
“I met them when they were 3, 6, and 7, and now they’re not. Two of them are doctors. Well, I don’t want to get into that because it’s very, very private.”
Ann-Margret and husband Roger Smith in Los Angeles, California on March 29, 1976 | Source: Getty Images
Ann-Margret’s Current Life
Now in her 80s, Ann-Margret is a jovial woman who resumed her career after her husband died. She has been busy and recently finished recording a new album called “Born to Be Wild.”
She revealed that she hadn’t done an album in 50 years, but she had so much fun creating her latest one.
The actress is attempting to move on with her life by being busy with her career, but she still lives in the same Los Angeles home she bought with Smith.
Ann-Margret in Universal City, California on March 24, 2021 | Source: Getty Images
Despite trying to keep herself happy, Ann-Margret revealed that grieving had made her lose interest in some of the pastimes she used to share with her husband, such as skiing. However, she hoped to return to the slopes soon.
The actress has already gone back to the big screens, and she has been featured in movies such as “Never Too Late” and “Queen Bees.” She noted:
“You’re not dead when you reach a certain age. You have to keep living and not sit at home and watch TV alone. You have to participate.”
Ann-Margret in Hollywood, California on February 14, 2022 | Source: Getty Images
The “Going in Style” star has also kept a group of close friends that includes people she worked with over the years. She revealed that she and her friends have an informal walking group:
“On Monday, there might be three of us. Another day, there might be 15. We go to a different place every weekend to walk. I’m excited to go.”
Ann-Margret in Hollywood, California on November 10, 2018 | Source: Getty Images
Nowadays, Ann-Margret spends her personal time with her cat, Harley. The 18-year-old feline is always with her and even sleeps with her every night.
